Queering manhood

50 years ago in India, and 100 years ago in the west, if i loved men openly, but was not into receiving anal sex, no one would think im unmanly or different or queer or abnormal ... and there would not be any reason to suspect I'm into receiving anal sex, (unless, I was queer) and no one would call me gay (or what was an equivalent term) or even remotely be able to accuse me of being gay... today, if I do they can immediately rob me of my manhood by calling me Gay.