if men would be allowed to love men, they would not care to go to women

The problem with accepting male-male sexual desires within mainstream straight spaces is that if those straight men start fulfilling their sexual desires with other men, most men will not care to go to women... and that is why those who controlled human societies have been striking at these bonds, through social manhood, through religion, and now through science.

This fact, that all men are capable of satisfying their sexual and romantic desires better with another man, so as to endanger marriage or 'heterosexual sex' (to a large extent) has been shared by the older folks, as well as the religionists like Christians. They know the real issues involved in figthing male bonds. But, they also want to fight only as much as is required to keep long lasting male bonds from forming... they were not interested or rather capable of driving these desires altogether out of the mainstream male spaces. That is why they allowed it to flourish behind the scenes in mainstream male spaces.

But science, with immense economic and technological resources was capable and willing to drive out man to man desire totally out of the mainstream masculine male spaces. And, they did it by putting together a tool, fraudulently, that would isolate all kinds of man to man desires from these spaces and lump them together with the queers, as unmanly and effeminate. This tool is called 'sexual orientation', and it preaches the lie that only those that only these rare effeminate/ queers are sexually desirous of men, the rest are 'heterosexuals'.