Feminine sexuality for men is essentially different from masculine sexuality for men

Gay is not about any male sexuality for men... its about feminine male sexuality for men. And feminine male sexuality for men is much more different from masculine male sexuality for men than masculine male sexuality is different from masculine male sexuality for women. The primary differentiation is between masculine male sexuality and feminine male sexuality. Masculine male sexuality for men and women often exist in the same individual. You can't divide the individual. On the other hand, masculine and feminine males are essentially different people, with different sexualities, whether it is towards men or women. This principle is followed by the Western heterosexual societies for 'heterosexuals' (as signified by not allowing queer heterosexuals to be part of the straight identity)  but not for straight men who own up to like men.