Heterosexuality doesn't define manhood

It is not heterosexuality that defines manhood, but rather man's sexual desire for men that does, if we look at:

1. Natural incidence: Not all masculine males experience a sexual desire for females, and those who do it do not experience it constantly. Most males who experience a sexual desire for females experience it periodically, often only a couple of times in their entire life.

On the other, 100% of masculine gendered males in nature experience strong same-sex desires.

2. Nature of sexual desire: While the sexual desire for females amongst men is purely of a physical nature and of extremely short duration -- it doesn't lend itself naturally to an emotional or social bond of any meaningful duration and no committment -- the sexual desire for men amongst men, is naturally, more constant, strong and lends itself easily to long lasting, committed bonds.

Heterosexuality belongs in the LGBT world, not man to man bonds

If anything belongs in the third gender, queer, LGBT world, its male heterosexuality, not masculine man to man bonds. These bonds are the base of manhood or straighthood.

The biological queer (heterosexual) is today classified as 'straight' and straight men are forced to copy him

It seems so ironical. The queer, non-man (shikhandi), two spirit male of yesteryears, who was despised for being too emotionally cozy with women, and who just didn't fit into the straight men's spaces and kept out of it because of the intense ridicule they heaped upon him (actually he never needed men's spaces, he was happy to be with women), is now the representative of the straight group since Straight is now equal to heterosexual. Today, straight men are forced to be like him and to copy him in order to remain in men's spaces and to save their manhood.

Really strange and pathetic!

Double standards of a Heterosexual society

the double standards are clear frm the fact that the moment you prove your heterosexuality, you can be damn feminine without losing your manhood and do all those things that were unacceptable for men in traditional societies.

Heterosexual society is basically for feminine males

Apart from real heterosexuals who are in any case, at least partly feminine gendered, the other group that really flourishes in a heterosexual set up is the real gay, both, when he takes the gay identity by openly accepting his sexual need as well as when he hides it and lives as 'straight'. It is very easy for him to fit into the heterosexual set up because his femininity makes it easier to be socially comfortable with women. He can also have a relationship with women without feeling any discomfort but for the sexual part, and to be really frank, if you are otherwise comfortable with women, and you have logged on to your feminine side, which means that you don't have an ego problem with them, then sex is not really a problem. That's a minor thing. So, pretending to be Heterosexual is a lot easier for them, and they're less likely to feel any pressures.