Thursday, December 11, 2008

It's the straight man with a near exclusive desire for men who is truly isolated and lonely

The mechanisms to wipe out man's sexual / love / intimacy  need for men from the men's (i.e. masculine males') spaces, has completely isolated the masculie male with an exclusively sexual / love need for men from men's spaces.

Alas, he is the one who cannot fit into the gay space. In Western, completely heterosexualized societies, he uses that space, even calls himself 'gay', he has no choice and no information on his real identity... he just follows whatever comes to him, there is no way for him to understand what's going on at the macro level (the conspiracy). But he's never comfortable with himself... his allotted place in the heterosexualized world... 

He's not really gay and his sexual needs are different from those of the queers. He needs to bond with other masculine gendered males. However there is hardly any social space for him to do that, whether he chooses the gay space/ identity or to live in the straight world as a heterosexual... considering gay is basically a third gender space. This makes him immensely lonely... he can't really realise his sexual needs in the 'gay' space.

He can't understand the cause of his immense discomfort and loneliness. In a society which has no social space to talk about manhood issues, especially the non-gay male sexuality for men (which is not even thought to be existent or technically possible)... he, who lives in practical isolation, whether in the gay or straight world, has no way to understand what's going on with him, because to know that you need to know things at the macro level. So he suffers in silence, thinking its his fate. Life's truly a hell for him, a punishment. But then who cares.

He may be extremely god gifted, with everything that could have made him lead the best possible life under natural circumstances. He could be extremely masculine, handsome and desirable for other straight men, who would died for him under natural conditions... he may have the best of qualities for a perfect bond, e.g. loyalty, love and committment... yet, everything that he has, goes waste, as he wastes away his life in loneliness, while other straight men who have been able to develop a sufficient sexual need for women, rule the world, after having sacrificed their sexual/romantic need for men.

What is needed is to organise this isolated man... who is the only power that can liberate men, from the age-old conspiracy against men... from his heterosexualization... So that men could live as men, as nature intended them to be, to their full potential, without being treated as a machine for reproduction.

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