Thursday, August 7, 2008
Social Heterosexuality fails to give true heterosexual men look manly
The artificial power granted to heterosexuality doesn't seem to do anything for truly heterosexual men. Its because, first of all, they are too queer, and then they are not really after power... and they don't really kill their feelings to develop bonds with women... but men who sacrifice their feelings to become heterosexual do it for power, and it shows on them. So, if you see a powerful 'heterosexual' guy, you know he is an artificial heterosexual.
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Could you elaborate on the seemingly extreme paradox of truly heterosexual men being "too queer"?
Heterosexuality as queer may seem too paradoxical to someone raised in a society that has been brainwashing its members with false notions of heterosexuality being equivalent to masculinity. However, if you've lived in traditional, non-western(ised) and non-heterosexualised men's spaces, you'd know what I'm talking about.
Any deeper involvement with women, beyond vaginal intercourse is considered feminine. The stronger the men's spaces, the more will be the stigma attached. In fact, while a sexual interest in men per se is not considered feminine at all (only receptive anal sex is), a social and emotional involvement with women, or a sexual interest in women where man is not exclusively the penetrator (e.g. performing oral sex on women) is considered extremely feminine.
It is actually, naturally true too. Because, in nature, amongst mammals, only transgendered males form any deeper sexual bonds with women. Most males have only short bouts of sexual intercourse just enough for reproduction, and do not ever form bonds with their female partners.
To take an example, in the year, 2000, in a small town in India, where I worked as a student-trainee, a man who was head over heels in love with a girl, and just to be with her used to hang out in the women's groups. He was widely ridiculed by other straight men as 'napunsak' and 'shikhandi'(hindi for Queer, a half-man, half-woman)
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