Thursday, August 7, 2008

Who is a 'gay' really?

till the modern west's heterosexual values came about a 'gay' was only considered someone who was (a) feminine + (b) into receptive anal sex as an identity. It was never used for real men who showed interest in men. By classifying things in such a way that these real men are not categorised along iwth the 'gays' who like men, the heterosexual society has conspired to force men to give up their need for men.

It is this misconstrued concept of 'sexual orientation' which has made real men vulnerable to be told, "your'e a bunch of gaandus", if they let their sexual interest in men become visible.

10% numbers is a compromise reached between the two powerful forces of heterosexualisation -- the heterosexual forces of heterosexualisation and heterosexually active women on the one hand and the homosexual forces of heterosexualisation on the other.

However, the number is both right and wrong.

If you say 10% of men are attracted to other men, there is nothing far from the truth.

But if you say that 10% of males are 'gay', then it is perfectly true, if you consider the real meaning of 'gay' and not as it is defined by the heterosexual society formally. And in actuality, gay means "third gender" who are attracted to men, or effeminate males who're attracted to men. Such males are no more than 10% of the total male population, if you consider the entire spectrum of strongly feminine gendered males who like men.

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