Heterosexual society is basically for feminine males

Apart from real heterosexuals who are in any case, at least partly feminine gendered, the other group that really flourishes in a heterosexual set up is the real gay, both, when he takes the gay identity by openly accepting his sexual need as well as when he hides it and lives as 'straight'. It is very easy for him to fit into the heterosexual set up because his femininity makes it easier to be socially comfortable with women. He can also have a relationship with women without feeling any discomfort but for the sexual part, and to be really frank, if you are otherwise comfortable with women, and you have logged on to your feminine side, which means that you don't have an ego problem with them, then sex is not really a problem. That's a minor thing. So, pretending to be Heterosexual is a lot easier for them, and they're less likely to feel any pressures.