People don't choose identities based on their natural traits, but based on power magnets

When the basic human identities like Gender (or any other identity based on one's characteristics) is heavily politicised, their definitions are arbitrarily and unnaturally fixed, and some identities are given extreme powers while others extreme disempowerment, then people don't choose their social identities based on their actual traits but based on where the social powers are.

The conspirators against men have placed power magnets with the heterosexual identity. while it is defined as 'heterosexual', its basically the masculine gendered male space.

Now anyone with the slightest sexual need for women attaches himself to the power magnets that say "heterosexuality", rather than go to the disempowered 'homosexual' identity. Although, the true heterosexuals don't really fit into the 'masculine' magnet of the heterosexual identity, they get to taste the powers because of their heterosexuality.

Then come men (i.e. masculine gendered males) who may not have any sexual need for women at all, but they realise that the 'heterosexual' space is actually their space -- for masculine gendered males. So, they hang on to it using their masculinity, although for it, they not only have to pretend sexual interest in girls, they also have to suppress, like the 100% of other straight men, that their sexual interest in men.

It is only when one is left out of the 'heterosexual' group, both because of a lack of heterosexuality and a lack of masculinity, that one is forced to think about leaving the powerful 'heterosexual' group and joining the 'homosexual' space.