Eversince i started talking about girls, and have been able to create a 'heterosexual' image, it has become very easy for me to talk about being close to men without my social manhood being threatened.

And that's what Sameer used to do. He would establish his interest in girls and then would comfortably be intimate with me in public, but although we never met in private, i know that he would never show such intimacy with me in private, because that would put him face to face with what he thinks is 'gay'.