Unless men learn to own up their sexual need for men, they will snatch away everything that's ever been really important to them

Since men lost their power to claim their own sexual need for men, the next big attack on them has come in the form of heterosexualisation. In this attack, the vested interests, the forces of heterosexualisation are snatching from them everything that was dear to them, their very basic necessities in life, their spaces, their dignity, their right -- yet since their power to claim their sexual need for each other is lost, they can no longer even complain... they must now be a mute spectator as the forces of heterosexualisation take away their freedom and rights one by one. Because in order to speak up, first they will have to acknowledge their sexual need for men. its a vicious circle, becuase if they do that, they'd immediately be thrown out of the men's spaces into the third sex 'homosexual' space. In any case, men can't do that as long as they are competing with each other and trying their best to avoid the gay label, which can come as easily as going to a movie with a male friend, or forming an emotional bond with a male friend.