Giving in to social manhood pressures maybe the easy way out, but it is harmful in the long run

Giving in to the pressures and learning to fit in, may be the easiest way out. And you may actually feel proud of yourself for having mastered it, and in return you are not only rewarded by the society, you also are able to withstand the pressures and it makes you feel like an achiever, a survivor.

But, this is still the easy way out. In the long run this approach is going to harm you. Because, it comes at the cost of effacing your inner-self. Your actual self. You'll lead your entire life without knowing or being who you really are. If you don't care for who you really are, then who will.

It's ultimately getting back to nature that will save you.

Just like using chemical dyes to colour your hair may be the easy way out. But ultimately, it will not only make all your hair white. it will slowly damage your inner organs, so that, by the time you're thirty or forty you will be inflicted with several lifestyle related serious diseases, inlcuding blood pressure, kidney problems, diabetes, etc.

But, if you take the natural way out, it will be hard, but it will give you naturally black hair (yes it is possible to do it, if you do it before you damage your hair too much with chemicals). You can have your black hair back naturally, without any damage to any of your organs. But like I said, it will require hard work and to make some sacrifices and changes in your lifestyle/ attitude.

If you are a real man, you should go for the hard way, not the easy way. Unfortunately, the modern society gives extreme value to the 'easy ways' and encourages them, while the things earned through the hard way are not really valued by the society. However, the real things earned through the natural hard way will always reward you much more than society can ever do.