Saturday, October 18, 2008

Straight men will only love men as much as the society gives them space

Straight men have a deep need to love other men... which they fight against all their life.

Straight men only give as much expression to their need to love men and only in such a manner that the society gives them scope within the straight space (i.e. men's space) -- especially through their politics of definitions and social classificiations. They will not cross the straight line to give expression to their same-sex needs. Their first and foremost loyalty is to their gender.

Since, in a heterosexual society there is no social space to do it in the straight space (i.e. men's space), straight men just don't acknowledge their sexual need for men at all -- but, if they get a chance they do have a relationship with another guy... only, they never talk about it or acknowledge it in anyway. Everything is done very very quietly and in a disguise, like making an excuse that girls are not present...

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