Straight men can't take the rare opportunities to form sexual bonds with men because of their conditioning

Its not only that the society is so hostile that it doesn't allow sexual bonds between straight men that they can't happen -- the oppression against men runs so deep that it controls the depths of straight men's psyches -- that even with the best of intentions and desire, when men do get an opportunity to form a bond with another man, they are so conditioned to foresake such bonds that they lose those rare opportunities when they arise.