Do you wonder why sex with women has been a criteria for granting manhood... ?

Because to most men, it sucks...

For most straight men, sex with women is a highly painful test, that they nevertheless have to go through, as a proof of their manhood. Something from which they have no escape. And they spend most of their youth trying to prepare themselves for the eventuality.

They do so much, date women to feel comfortable with them, eventually, watch loads and loads of girl porn to develop an interest eventually, masturbate over girl's pics, look at girls all the time, when they couldn't care less -- in fact making it their second nature to do so, rub their crotches with willing girls in crowded buses to feel arousal through girls in a non-threatening environment (as the girl cannot call them 'namard' or 'gay' for not getting an erection), chat with lots of different girls on internet, again to remove their emotional and social discomfort and thousands of such other maneuvres to help them prepare for the day, when one day they will

It is not very different from the ones that they had to go through several thousands years ago, when they had to go through excruciating painful tests like being engraved with knives all over their bodies. Only this is not a one time test, and men have to pretend that all the time that they just love it.

I see that happening all around me, and the more I learn about men, and their double lives, the more apparent this struggle of theirs becomes.