Women encouraged to connect with their womanhood, men discouraged to connect with their manhood

When a woman wants to connect with other women in order to explore womanhood, it is considered a positive thing -- she's strengthening her womanhood. But when a man seeks to connect with other men, he is ridiculed by the heterosexual society as 'gay'. He must connect with women if he wants to explore and strengthen his manhood -- how stupid. And unfair.