To see a man struggling with and killing his innerself for the society that couldn't care for him less is really painful

As a man who did not built the mechanisms or did not go through the conditioning to suppress my needs and build thousands of minute inner resistances and pretences to hide and kill my natural needs and do what is required for the society, it seems so tortuous to see people like Sameer go through all those painstaking things, sacrificing one's intense and most basic needs and desires in the process, and thinking nothing of it.