Friday, May 9, 2008

Why straight men don't fall in love with each other

Men keep fighting their need to love another man all their life. When they find a man they're attracted to, they have sexual fun with him -- and keep it at that level only -- an unacknowledged physical lust, but never even think about getting emotionally involved. They don't even think about that path, leave alone treading on it. This is because of social conditioning.

But when a man he is attracted to is drawn to him and removes the outer block that they've created and enters into his personal, emotional/ sexual space, then the man starts getting emotionally involved. But he is really scared to fall in love with another man.

So, he keeps fighting his emotional involvement and stops it from growing. He kills it with extreme cruelty. It's like fighting one's own self.

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