When societies become vulgarly rich by exploiting nature through industrialization, the anti-man vested interests that controlled the society so far, but could not annihilate men's spaces or men's sexual bonds altogether, became extremely powerful through the financial and technolgical powers gotten through industrialization, since they controlled its benefits. They also had two new extremely powerful social institutions -- science and media at their control, and they have abused them to the full.

With this unnatural power, they became 'gods' (or devils), and for the first time were able to destroy men's spaces. One's they did that, it was easy for them to isolate and banish intimacies between men into the gay ghetto.

It's by attaching power and manhood with 'sexual/ romantic/ social interest in women' that the society makes us vulnerable whether directly, indirectly, explicitly or implictly...

Unless this extremely oppressive politics is done away with any amount of freedom given to men to like men is worthless, useless... and will continue to result in the oppression of men...